So I've got this problematic 4th Great Grandfather, Collins Mix. He's problematic because when I first applied to the Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR), my application had to be rejected as the father/son relationship between Collins Mix and his son Jonathan Collins Mix is assumed but not proven. The slightly unusual first name of "Collins" comes from his mother's maiden name.
I know that somewhere, there's got to be a small item in a local newspaper, or a bible page, but so far, no one has found them. So, when I can, I come back to him to see what I can find.
Collins was born on 20 January 1777 in Wallingford, CT, to Thomas Mix and Lois Collins. I know of one brother to Collins, an older brother named Joel.
By the time Collins was in his early 20s in the 1800 US Census, he was in Clarendon, Rutland County, VT, married to Leafe Ide.
By the 1810 Census, the family was south of there, in Northumberland, Saratoga County, NY. Finally, by the 1820 and 1830 censuses they stopped their wandering in Candor, Tioga County, NY. I have yet to locate him in the 1840 census.
From what I can tell so far, they had 4 living children, Olive, Jonathan Collins, Squire Ide, and Sevinah. Interesting names to be sure, and genealogists LOVE interesting and unusual names!!!! As a little girl I was frustrated with my own name, always having to pronounce it and spell it for people, but boy did my perspective change once I started researching genealogy! Thomas Mix, son of Thomas Mix, son of Thomas Mix, son of Thomas Mix, and every female named Elizabeth or Sarah, UGH!!!!! LOL, but I digress....
Now, on to the 1850 census, the first that really gives us some good details on our people. I found Collins Mix, but he was not only alone, he was listed as a "pauper" in the Tioga County Poorhouse.
There's lots of reasons a person might end up in a "Poorhouse" in the 1800s - you could of course, be poor, but you might also have a disability like blindness or deafness, some kind of congenital disease, you might be an alcoholic, or have mental illness. And despite the best intentions that might have gone into creating a poorhouse, it was a place best avoided if possible. So how is Collins there, alone? He had adult kids, he had a wife. Leafe shows up in the 1865 New York State census, living with her daughter Sevinah and her family so she was alive - unfortunately, despite her lovely unusual name, she remains elusive - I have not yet been able to find her whereabouts in 1850.
But now, Jonathan Collins Mix is findable in 1850 - I found him living in the same county as his dad Collins, in the Candor NY 1850 census. He's listed with his wife and 4 kids. So why isn't Collins living with his son if he's so close by?
So that's a clue that perhaps there was something going on with Collins where either he didn't want to be with family members or they weren't in a position to take him in. Could have been mental illness, alcoholism, but all I know for sure is he's listed as a "pauper" in the 1850 census. Could be he was just a jerk! Or maybe his family were the jerks! We'll never know for sure.
So armed with this information, back in 2009 I traveled up to the Tioga County Historical Society. It's on a serene tree-lined street right up on the river in Owego NY.
There I found an index card in their files during a search for Collins Mix. The index card said the following information was from the "Tioga County Keeper's Book":
Mix, Collins
D. 17 Jan. 1852 ae 73 at the Poor House
12 Nov. 1850 admitted ae 72, intemperate
Residence Tioga County
AHA! So there we go - "intemperate". In this case, the word intemperate was often used to denote alcoholism. So if that is truly what's going on, that would explain why his family, though nearby, didn't have Collins living with them. Of course, he could have had a terrible temper......
Anyhoo, with that information, I was then able to locate, on microfilm at the Historical Society, the following, which proved the death information on the index card:
Mortality at the Poor House
Names of persons who have died at the Poor House during the year
ending on the 1st Day of Dec. 1852
(Furnished by Col. Daniel Bacon, Keeper).
...
Collins Mix, formerly of Candor, Jan 17th 1852, 73
...
Average number of inmates, about 75
Proportion of Deaths about as 1 to 5
Of the whole number received, the proportion is as 1 - 17
This was from "The Owego Gazette", Number 21, 15 January 1853, page 2.
While there at the historical society in 2009, I asked about that Tioga County Keeper's Book mentioned on the index card, but was told at the time that they did not have it, though if I reached out to other historians in the area I might be able to locate it.
And so there for many years, was the end of my information about my 4th Great Grandfather, Collins Mix.
Up next, Part 2!!!! No, I didn't prove the father-son relationship (I WISH!), but I did find out more cool stuff along with my cousin!